ohhh sorry this is late .. hope you are alright rory and im sure Norman will stay close to you as spirit (by the way im loving the name Norman for a hamster ) . also i think Holly needs an intervention order is what they call it here in Aussie. especially if his behaviors are escalating . these situations are never safe , can she stay somewhere else where he doesnt know she is for a few weeks until his immediate behaviors die down and bit . she needs to talk to the domestic violence people about what to do , she may be able to stay in a type of shelter to get help and remain safe for the now. i will send her healing and strength.also healing for Norman in the area of spirit progression. xxxxx