found on the net. agree 100%
This is tailored to adults who have Aspergers and recently were diagnosed, but the list can apply to many ages and many conditions other than Aspergers Syndrome.
20 Things Not to Say to a Person with Aspergers
1. Everyone feels like that sometimes. [wait, what?]
2. Everything happens for a reason. [suppose that explains you anyway]
3. You’re fine. They have too many labels nowadays. [Dude STFU!]
4. That reminds me of me. I wonder if I have that too. [yep jump on the old wagon, c'mon we have loads of room..]
5. Things could always be worse. [Yes, there could be more NT's like you firing responses like that back at me...]
6. At least you don’t have autism. [WTF? ]
7. Don’t worry. Be happy. Think Positive. [yes thinking about it will help me get out of my mind... really?]
8. That’s no big deal. [Not for you anyway]
9. You’re too serious. Get out of your head and help others. [Ha, see no7...]
10. Everyone has problems. Stop analyzing yours. [oh yea cos your perfect...]
11. I never would have guessed. You seem so normal. [practice, practice , practice , practice , practice , practice ,practice ,practice ,.... getting it now?]
12. Are you sure? Maybe you need a second opinion. [ug.. just stop talking now]
13. Why do you think that? [you dont?]
14. That’s weird. Good luck. [gee, I take a huge step in telling, its probable one of the very few i did tell and that's your response...]
15. Aren’t you glad you found out? [wait, Should I be?]
16. That’s so trendy. Everyone thinks they have that. [yep, its everywhere now jump on... wait, see note no4]
17. Did you get an “official” diagnosis? [and you did to say your an NT]
18. I’m uncomfortable with people classifying themselves by a diagnosis. [Ha, so many things I could say but... lets just say you NEVER speak to me again and were sorted]
19. My cousin’s neighbor has Aspergers. [always one]
20. Well, now that you know, stop focusing on it, and get on with your life. [k, see all the last 19 notes there bud..]
Wait, you try to tell me what I can call/say about me?
OK so as more of the people in my day to day life find out about the Aspie side of me I have come here to rant.
WAIT, Where do you people get off telling me what I am and am not called... by myself!? At what point in your life did my life and my brain become offensive to you?
How FUCKING dare you tell me how I do or do not describe me, myself and what I am in this life stuck with you frigging backward thinking know it alls.
GRRR... EDIT:
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OK, you know what, I had to cut this rant short and I just end up doing the aspie thing and going super detail into every thing and before long this is one HUGE post.
So I found a aspie (funny, its made by a fellow ASPIE, Go figure!) vid that deals with it PERFECTLY ! OK so she also makes the point a few times over but hey it's an aspie thing we do so DEAL WITH IT!
Dont care? fine then don't watch the 24 min vid, but if you do care and/or want to learn something about me/us/NT's and maybe yourself, ok go nuts and hit play button.
Enjoy.
Ha ha yea I did over use the ASPIE word, once more, DEAL WITH IT!
You frigging NT's make me so mad at times.
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=vdrl9kt6v2I